The 8C's by Dato' Dr. Fadzillah Kamsah

8C SEBAB SUAMI BENCI ISTERI
dari Dr Fadillah Kamsah


C1. CABAR
Lelaki mempunyai ego mereka tersendiri. Jadi mereka tidak suka dicabar terutama sekali oleh wanita. Wanita perlu tahu batas tindakan mereka agar lelaki tidak rasa tercabar.Isteri kalau bergaduh dengan suami mulalah kata "Kalau awak berani cubalah cari perempuan lain! Dr Fadillah kata JGN CABAR SUAMI... nanti suami buat betul-betul isteri juga yg putih mata...



C2. CABUL
Cabul ni bermaksud keji dari segi perangai sehingga seseorang wanita itu langsung tidak malu. Misalnya bergaul bebas dgn lelaki yang bukan muhrim tanpa menghirau batas pergaulan.Juga perbuatan & kata2 isteri yang tak sopan (isteri hilang sifat malu)seperti keluarkan kata2 yg tidak baik pada mertua...



C3. CELUPAR
Wanita yg cantik akan kelihatan hodoh jika mulutnya celupar.Celupar lebih kurang cabul juga. Isteri selalu cakap yang tidak manis, selalu terlepas cakap pada suami sehingga membuat suami jauh hati.



C4. COMOT
Terdapat wanita yg cantik tetapi comot. Comot ini samada melibatkan wajah wanita itu, penampilannya yg selekeh,kerja yg dilakukan serta tindak-tanduknya. Contohnya, isteri bila nak keluar rumah baru nak bersolek dan comel tapi kat rumah comot. Suami pula di tempat kerja asyik pulak nampak yg comel2 aje... Ada isteri kata - mekap untuk suami,tapi kat rumah tak praktik pun.



C5. CEMBURU
Cemburu perlu dalam sesuatu hubungan.Tetapi wanita yg terlampau cemburu hingga pasangannya merasa terkongkong akan membawa padah kepada perhubungan mereka.. Ini membuatkan lelaki akan rasa diri mereka tidak dipercayai. Suami lemas kalau isteri cemburu berlebih-lebihan... sikit2 dok telefon suami kat tempat kerja. Suami baru balik kerja dah kita tanya macam-macam. Suami balik lewat overtime dah syak yg bukan2...



C6. CEREWET
Kata ulama hati wanita terletak pada mulutnya.Oleh itu wanita perlu mengawal percakapannya. Suami tak suka bila isteri cerewet tak bertempat. Contohnya kalau suami bawa makan luar, isteri nak tempat yang class2 aje. Restoran nak ada air-cond aje.



C7. CINCAI
Buat kerja rumah cincai, masak cincai, kemas rumah cincai, jaga anak cincai.Dr Fadillah kata suami paling benci bila isteri cincai jaga anak...anak dah masuk longkang tapi mak dok lepak depan tv lagi....



C8 CUAI
Kebiasaan lelaki tidak suka jika pasangannya cuai terutama apabila ia melibatkan masa.. Misalnya apabila suami menetapkan keluar jam 3 tetapi pada masa yg ditetapkan isteri masih sibuk bersiap,bersolek, mengemas.Ini akan membuatkan mereka benci kerana situasi sebegini.



8C ini lambang keperibadian muslimah yang lemah akhlaknya.Berpelajaran tinggi belum tentu tinggi akhlaknya. Tapi kita insan yg mudah lupa & lalai... ada masa2 tertentu, mungkin juga kerana sifat suami & keadaan sekeliling yang buat kita mempunyai salah satu ciri2 8C tu.Renungkanlah.....

The Day When I Received An E-mail on A Needle that can save the LIFE of a STROKE PATIENT

INTERESTING!!

"Keep a syringe or needle in your home to do this... It's amazing
and
an unconventional way of recovering from stroke, read it through it
can help somebody 1 day.
This is amazing, if it works. Please keep this very handy...
Excellent
tips. Do take a minute to read this. You'll never know. One's life
may
depend on you.

My father was paralyzed and later died from the result of a stroke.
I
wish I knew about this first aid before.
When stroke strikes, the capillaries in the brain will gradually
burst. When a stroke occurs, stay calm. No matter where the victim
is,
do not move him/her. Because, if moved, the capillaries will burst.
Help the victim to sit up where h e is to prevent him from falling
over again, and then the bloodletting can begin. If you have in your
home an injection syringe that would be the best, otherwise, a
sewing
needle or a straight pin will do. Place the needle/pin over fire to
sterilize it, and then use it to prick the tip of all 10 fingers.
There are no specific acupuncture points, just prick about an mm
from
the fingernail. Prick till blood comes out. If blood does not start
to
drip, then squeeze with your fingers. When all 10 digits is
bleeding,
wait a few minutes then the victim will regain consciousness.

If the victim's mouth is crooked, then pull on his ears until they
are
red. Then prick each ear lobe twice until two drops of blood comes
from each ear lobe. After a few minutes the victim should regain
consciousness.
Wait till the victim regain his normal state without any abnormal
symptoms then take him to the hospital, otherwise, if he was taken
in the ambulance in a hurry to the hospital, the bumpy trip will
cause
all the capillaries in his brain to burst. If he could save his
life,
barely managing to walk, then it is by the grace of his ancestors.

I learned about letting blood to save life from Chinese traditional
doctor Ha Bu-Ting who lives in Sun-Juke. Furthermore, I had
practical
experience with it. Therefore I can say this method is 100%
effective.
In 1979, I was teaching in Fung-Gaap College in Tai-Chung. One
afternoon I was teaching class when another teacher came running to
my
class room and said in panting, "Mr. Liu, come quick, our supervisor
has had a stroke!"

I immediately went to the 3rd floor. When I saw our supervisor,
Mr.Chen Fu-Tien, his color was off, his speech was slurred, his
mouth
was crooked-all the symptoms of a stroke.

I immediately asked one of the practicum students to go to the
pharmacy outside the school to buy a syringe, which I used to prick
Mr. Chen's 10 fingers tips. When all 10 fingers were bleeding (each
with a pea-sized
drop of blood), after a few minutes, Mr. Chen's face regained its
color and his eyes' spirit returned, too. But his mouth was still
crooked. So I pulled on his ears to fill them with blood. When his
ears became red, I pricked his right earlobe twice to let out 2
drops
of blood. When both earlobes had two drops of blood each, a miracle
happened. Within 3-5 minutes the shape of his mouth returned to
normal
and his speech became clear. We let him rest for a while and have a
cup of hot tea, then we helped him go down the stairs, drove him to
Wei-Wah Hospital . He rested one night and was released the next day
to return to school to teach.
Everything worked normally. There were no ill after-effects. On the
other hand, the usual stroke victim usually suffers irreparable
bursting of the brain capillaries on the way to the hospital. As a
result, these victims never recover.

Therefore stroke is the second cause of death. The lucky ones will
stay alive but can remain paralyzed for life.
It is such a horrible thing to happen in one's life. If we can all
remember this bloodletting method and start the life-saving process
immediately, in a short time, the victim will be revived and regain
100%
normality. We hope you can tell others about this first aid method.
By
doing so, stroke may be removed from the list of major causes of
death.

Forward this after reading. It will be a good deed indeed. The
greatest risk is not taking one... Make a difference!!!

The Day When I Was Really Upset and Missed My Dad

What a boring day today........fuhh....How I wish I could be together with my beloved hubby and my most beloved children "Broccolli" and "Pumpkin" right now...at home or elsewhere...watch movies, hang around at the shopping mall, makan aiskrim Haagen Daaz, or duduk-duduk dekat Coffee Bean or McDonalds...waaahhhh ALANGKAH seronoknya..... :))

Today not a very good day for me after what we (I and my hubby) had an arguements with my mom last night...but kalau dah namanya "EMAK" nak buat macam mana kan...kalau kata salah pun she still right no matter what and kesilapannya pun datangnya from both of us, so nak tak nak kenalah terima.....ermmm....sedih pun ada, letih dan sesak dada pun ada bila kena marah....thought of bila dah besar panjang dan dah kahwin tak payah nak kena "scold" lagi esp with parents....alih-alih kena jugak....what an upset situation....but life has to go on no matter what she still my mom. Emak yang telah membesar dan mendidikku sampailah aku besar panjang dan dah beranak pinak. UPSET :((

How I wish right now that "ABAH" is here to calm and comfort me while I was so down coz mom never want know how I feel. Hubby lain 'penangannya' pujukan tak sama....YA ALLAH I really-really miss my dad...Eight years tu terlalu lama dan selama itulah perasaan rindu aku terhadap "abah" terlalu mendalam. "If" he is here.. in the situation I'm sure he will try to protect and back me up no matter I'm right or wrong. I MISS HIM SOW MUCH :((

To be a good parent means that you have to carry a big responsibilities with all household multitasking job which I did sometime feel that I can't cope with what I'm currently doing now....SUSAH...compare to previous (time anak dara dululah). You have to jaga semua 'heart', huhuhuhuhuhu.....Tapi I have to proof it to myself, Hubby, mother, sister, family and in-laws that I can be a better and bestest mother, wife, daughter, daughter in-law in the UNIVERSE....hahahahhahaha (MEREPEKLAH) :))

Tapi overall memang aku tengah sad, unhappy and "soulless" today. Maybe because of last night incident. Tapi apa2 pun aku tetap sayangkan FAMILYku (Ayah, Brocolli, Pumpkin, arwah Abah, Emak & Along) kalianlah Raja dan Ratu dalam hatiku.....tiada yang lain.

LURVE YOU ALL SOW MUCH

I REALLY MISS YOU ABAH.....